Tag: New Stepmom
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How to Deal with Jealousy
For quite some time now, I’ve wondered, “why does she hate me so much?” I never knew her or my partner when they were going through divorce. I didn’t cause the divorce. I have been kind and considerate despite her outbursts and insults, her belittling and attempts to manipulate me. I don’t do drugs, get… Read more
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How to Support Stepparents in School Activities
It’s back-to-school time again, and my step kids are starting a new school year in a new school district (less than 5 miles from the previous school, but new nonetheless). During the last school year, our main struggle was getting the other side to help with homework or projects at all, often times leaving us… Read more
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How to Make Your “Home” a Place of Peace
When I think of “home”, I think of my personal place of refuge, rest, peace, and comfort. A place that I can wind down after a long day and make happy memories with my family. For those of us that have been divorced though, we know well that it’s not always so ideal. In considering… Read more
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How to keep your integrity as a new stepmom or bonus mom
Let’s face it — blended families and bringing in new parental figures or role models is commonplace in today’s world. If you’re dating in your 30’s or later, then chances are that either you or your partner has been divorced and may even have children. And these relationships are usually even more sensitive and cautious… Read more
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Our Goal: Becoming a Stepmom of Love
Being a stepmom or a bonus mom is a whole different ball game when it comes to having a family and raising children. Stepping into a new relationship and marriage can feel crazy enough. However, making a choice to merge families and invite children that aren’t your own blood brings a completely different set of… Read more